Parent Meetings, School Assemblies, and a Growing Garden

The sisters have started asking me to fill in for parent meetings and take the girls to Doctor appointments and what not. It has been a great opportunity for me to see more of the bigger picture, and understand why we do things the way we do at the home. Granted a few of the experiences at the doctor's office I could have done without. I got to take our little Drama queen to have blood drawn. To top it off, the nurse was far from helpful!

I have been blown away by the frustration the parents have of lack of parent involvement. It is so hard because some parents can barely pay the tuition money, and then don't have enough to stretch for school supplies, to buy toilet paper and paper towels for the classroom each month, much less to help with raffles and to pay $20 USD for an end of the year party. Here in Chile you get about 1/2 the parents coming to parent meetings and each class meets individually! In the states we would die for that level of involvement. On the positive side of the parent meetings, every group of parents has been so generous in supporting our girls when they find out that they live at an Hogar. Everone ends up pitching in.

Matt and I were also invited the end of September to speak at a school assembly in front of 380 high school kids at Colegio Maria Auxiliadora. It was a bit last minute, but it went great. It was part of their activities they had for the month of gratitude. We did a round table on different opportunities for volunteering. Matt was shy to talk in front of the group but in the end he did a great little speech about what a great impact even just 1 person (like Don Bosco) can have on the lives of so many. The kids loved him, and it was a great confidence boost for his Spanish.

The garden has been going fabulously and the kids have loved it. We had our first harvest, and while all the girls were so excited to try their first radish... they weren't too thrilled about the flavor. The peas are coming along just fine, and we even have a potato plant that popped up in the most bizzare location. The girls kept digging up the potatoes that Matt planted last June and moving them around the garden. My Yoga class is just about over, and we've transitioned into doing a power point for the girls to do a presentation on the benefits of yoga. They've been loving working on the computer and have learned a lot.

'Ommmm.'

A little bug...

So many days I am reminded that the kids at the home are just like any other kid, but there are other times when I am reminded of the uniqueness of the hogar, this space that we have been so blessed to share with everyone here. Sometimes these reminders are painful, or sad, other times they are wonderful and funny.

My favorite story revolves around a little bug we like to call the 'piojo.' In common English, better known as lice. The first stories that I heard about lice have to do with a little girl named Margarita. Sister Bernadet, in the evenings, would flip up her veil and Margarita would jump on her back and start looking for piojos. One day, Margarita came up to me in the hallway with this excited look on her face, she wanted to give me something she had found, she opened up her hand and gave me... a piojo. The girls used to have a carpet in the living room, but there were so many resident piojos that you could be entertained by watching the jumping contest.

Now one might ask, why can't they get rid of the lice?! The biggest obstacle we have is that about 1/3 of the girls go home on the weekends to spend with their families. There is lice in the homes, and they bring it back to the Hogar. The battle becomes insurmountable. We just do not have enough control over the kids' environments.

The part that seemed so surreal about the whole thing is that the kids talk about lice like they're talking about what they ate for breakfast. Sometimes it's borring, sometimes it's exciting. The other day I was picking out nits from Connie's hair. It's a great time to talk with the kids because it can take quite a while and the mini-head masssage is kind of relaxing. She started telling me stories about her neighborhood and how funny one of the neighbor kids is. She claims that she has a circus in her hair. She has named all the big trapeze artists, and they do backflips and swing from hair to hair. Kind of makes the whole story you heard as a kid of flea circuses make sense at a whole new level. When you hear the girls tell their stories, and just be kids, it doesn't seem like such a bad thing after all. And in all the funkiness of living with hundredes and hundreds of piojos, it's just another day at the hogar, loving these amazing kids.

Pictures!

Hello everyone!

What a hiatus from blogging we have had! It has been a busy couple of months (more of that to come later.) I finally got some more great pictures of the kids up, along with commentary and all! Click on the tittle of this entry to check them out.

Much love as always,
Janelle and Matt

Another BIG thanks to all those who have donated!

I've been thinking a lot about how generous all of you have been and was just thinking about all the different ways you have helped touch the kid's lives here in Maipu, and I just wanted to share with you. It's amazed me, so I hope you enjoy as well. The Lord works in such wondrous ways!

- Birthdays presents and cakes for about 25 girls
- Ballet slippers and costumes for the performance last May
- Gardening supplies and veggetable and flower seeds
- Food supplies for Sunday Lunches
- Washmachine
- New Refrigerater!
- Potato dicer and a real can opener
- Tuition for school
- Doctor Appointments for the girls
- Music CD's for relaxation and classes
- Fees for swimming Classes at Alberto Widmer School
- Soon to come: We are setting up a fund for additional school costs including field trips, events at the school, and extra curricular activities. We are also raising money right now for new Dressers in the bedrooms and new comforters for the beds.

Thank you all so much from the bottoms of our hearts. It has meant so much to us and the the girls and the sisters as well! God bless you all. Matt and Janelle

The girls wanted to say hi!

Enjoy!

Sunday Cookin', Wash machines, Yoga and gardens

It's been a long time since we've gotten a post up on the blog. I feel like we've got so many wonderful stories to share... and the days zoom by so fast. Well, today is the 19th of August and we've officially been here for 6 months. They always say that it takes at least 6 months to adjust to a new culture, new ways of living, a new language. I always seem to want to speed up the process, but no matter how hard I try God just looks down, laughs, and says nice try.

I can proudly say that we have finally come into our own here at the Hogar. Matt works hard in the kitchen each morning, and he now is the official cook for Sunday lunches. He plans out the meal on Wednesday, does the shopping and cooks the meal on Thursdays to freeze for the coming Sunday. The kids have been enjoying lasagna, Risoto, pizza, stuffed shells... basically all things Italian. Lots of new flavors for the kids, but they've really been enjoying it, as have the sisters as it has lightened their work load for Sundays. Thanks to the amazing donations that we have recieved from the States, you all have been able to pay for these meals, which has enriched the children's diet on Sundays and allowed the sisters to buy additional foods for the other days of the week.

With the donation money, the sisters have also bought a new refrigerater and the lovely Wash machine demonstrated here by our lovely assistant Tia Roxana. Believe me, this baby will get A LOT of use, and is a life saver when you're washing for 45 people.

I've been busy lately too. The Rhythms of the Hogar can absorb you, but in a good way, with a lot of belly laughs, smiles, hugs and kisses from the kiddos sprinkled throughout the day. The day starts early with getting ready for school, showers, dressing, breakfast, brushing teeth, combing hair, cleanning up the house, homework... then right into lunch, picking up kids from school, dropping off, more kids coming back home for lunch... finally time for a short lunch with Carlos, Vero, Roxana,Matt and myself. After lunch it's another hour of chores and beauty of all beauties a 2 hour break for Matt and I. The idea is to have time for each other, to connect and run errands etc. half the time it gets set aside for cooking, yoga classes, gardening, and every now and then helping kids with studying. I keep telling Matt, we have to make our breaks sacred but it is sooo hard! We're working on it. After break it's off to pick the kids up from school, back for dinner, showers, chores and bedtime, but wait there's still chores, lay out clothes, shine shoes, and another pass of the broom and the mop. Sit down for a hot cup of tea and bread for Onces, and a nice Chilean tele-novela. Bedtime at 10:40pm and repeat the next day!

We're coming to the end of yoga classes with about 12 of the girls. They've had a lot of fun learning the new moves. There's always one of them that says, 'oh that one is sooo easy!' Then they try it. If it's something involving balance, they fall over laughing. If it's a flexibility move, they wind up like little pretzels. All I can say is wow, wish I was as flexible as a 9 year old! Check out the pictures on the photo link to the left. The kids are putting together a power point about what they've learned about Yoga. They're loving learning about the computer. I've never seen them so eager to learn.

Just a few weeks ago we finally got our winter garden planted. It took a lot of paperwork and a lot of waiting but Dad's peas finally made it to Chile and to the Hogar. We used some of the donation money to buy supplies and the girls all helped plant a row. Yesterday we got so much rain that the whole garden flooded... I guess we didn't pick the best spot along the wall. The girls have been so excited. In reality they're much better at digging holes and fighting over the hand rakes than they are at weeding or at taking the rocks out, but either way they're having a lot of fun.

Buenos Aires in July

Hello all, just wanted to let you know that I just posted a bunch of pictures.

Buenos Aires was absolutely beautiful. It´s a really old port city and so the buildings were fabulous, and the downtown is much more centralized than Santiago because everything is centered around the port. We met up with our friend Magali and her mother to see the city. Magali was born in Buenos Aires, is %100 Italian heritage, and grew up in California. Talk about a multi-cultural chica! She goes back to visit her family every summer for a month so we took advantage of having a personal tour guide.

We got into Buenos Aires and headed straight for our hotel. The Lola House is run by two sisters... who also happen to be Italian-Argentinian. They were the most amazing hosts we have ever had at a hotel. They served us up with a late breakfast, and all the drip coffee we could want (which was a lot b/c we'd been living off of instant coffee for 5 months!) If anyone is ever traveling through Buenos Aires we highly reccomend the Lola House.

The next biggest attraction (after the drip coffee) was the tango dancing. They have tango shows all over the city... some are short exhibition dances and others are more like broadway productions. We went to a broadway production and it was fabulous. Talk about your professional athletes. I never realized before what a versatile and intricate dance the tango was.

Our biggest adventure in Buenos Aires was the great search for Matt's family in Buenos Aires. We opened up the phone book and looked for Arcuri's, which is Matt's greatgrandmother's maiden name on his dad's side. The phone book was loaded with them! We started with Anna Arcuri and worked our way down. We got some pretty crazy responses. Lots of people thought we were playing a prank, some of the older gents couldn't get their hearing aids turned up high enough, and I'm not sure what the others were thinking because they just hung up on us. We finally had the luck to get ahold of a gentleman by the name of Hector Arcuri. His grandfather, Bernardo Arcuri immigrated from Conzensa, Italy about 100 years ago. Which is the same town that Matt's family is from. He was as excited to talk to us as we were to talk with him, as he has been trying to work on family geneology and had had a hard time building the family tree. Unfortunately we weren't able to meet up with him as we weren't in Buenos Aires very long... so I guess that means we'll just have to make another trip! If any of y'all in the States have any names or dates/birthdates that might help us, let us know. It's been really fun to work on.

Loves, Blessings and Big Hugs,
Janelle and Matt